., click here to enter for a chance to win one of our many $50 gift cards we are giving away.

Learn more

Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Suspendisse varius enim in eros elementum tristique. Duis cursus, mi quis viverra ornare, eros dolor interdum nulla, ut commodo diam libero vitae erat. Aenean faucibus nibh et justo cursus id rutrum lorem imperdiet. Nunc ut sem vitae risus tristique posuere.

Tips to Balance Time Spent Online & Offline

., you're logged in!
Enjoy this resource and share our programs with your school district to send these resources to your whole community
Tell Your School District About Our Program
., you're logged in!
Share this resource with a parent at .
Copy Share Link
., you're logged in!
Enjoy this demo pass. Click the button to share access with leaders in your school district
Share Your Demo Pass With School District Leaders

Become a member or login to learn more on this topic

Superintendents, Directors and Principals: Request a partnership on this page to unlock our resources for your whole community.

Become a member or log in to learn more on this topic

Superintendents, Directors and Principals: Request a partnership on this page to unlock our resources for your whole community.
Quotation marks

This is great info, thanks for giving me some ideas on how to start a dialogue with my teen!

StarStarStarStarStar

Sharon M.

Parent VIP Member

Quotation marks

Josh's presentation about social media was unbelievably fantastic. Our students learned so much about what kids should and shouldn't be doing. The fact that it is such a thoughtful process made it all worthwhile.

StarStarStarStarStar

Director of College Advising

Educator Webinar Attendee

Quotation marks

This webinar is a very helpful eye-opener on the apps that are popular with my students.

StarStarStarStarStar

Irene C.

Educator Webinar Attendee

Tips to Balance Time Spent Online & Offline

., you're logged in!
Enjoy this resource and share our programs with your school district to send these resources to your whole community
Tell Your School District About Our Program
., you're logged in!
Share this resource with a parent at .
Copy Share Link
., you're logged in!
Enjoy this demo pass. Click the button to share access with leaders in your school district
Share Your Demo Pass With School District Leaders
Tips to Balance Time Spent Online & Offline Expert Guest Blog SmartSocial.com

We asked 7 experts to share their best tips for teaching teens how to create a healthy balance between time spent online and offline. Learn how treating online activities as a reward, utilizing the timer on your phone, and more, can help students balance online and offline activities.

1. Constantly controlling screen time isn’t a long-term solution

Jennifer Bernstein headshot
Jennifer Bernstein

Jennifer Bernstein, Get Yourself Into College, @JennbBernstein

Supporting kids in creating their own healthy balance between online and offline activities is essential. Constantly controlling when they’re on and when they’re off isn’t a long-term solution. It’s often hard for teens to get offline at night because our devices emit blue wavelengths, which, according to the HarvardHealth Letter, “boost attention, reaction times, and mood.”They keep us up and wired! Have your teens install f.lux on their computers and use features like “Night Shift” on their iPhones (which increase relaxing red tones). They’ll naturally start winding down and you can avoid—or at least minimize—the fights.

2. Take on an extracurricular activity

Varda Epstein headshot
Varda Epstein

Varda Epstein, Kars4Kids, @EpaVard

Taking on an extracurricular activity such as singing in glee club or going out for a sport is the best way for students to ensure there's a healthy balance between online and offline time.

These activities involve being with others in the real, as opposed to the virtual world, and doing some sort of teamwork.

3. Consider using the Moment app

David Ezell headshot
David Ezell

David Ezell, Darien Wellness

One of the primary rules of behavioral psychology is that observed behavior changes. When I have a client tell me they wish they could spend less time on their phones, or complain about their spouses or children doing so, I recommend an app called Moment.

Moment is a free app that gives you an incredible level of detail on your behavior with regards to your smartphone. Once it's set up it runs seamlessly in the background and can tell you a lot about your hourly and daily use of your smart device.

For an up charge of $3.99 you can use a set of interactive tools to shape your behavior with regard to the role your phone plays in your life. I have had several of my clients change their behavior with regard to their iPhone by using Moment.

4. Disconnect on the weekends

Michael Cohen headshot
Michael Cohen

Rabbi Michael Cohen M.S.Ed, The Tech Rabbi

Most students are connected to technology 24/7. Every week from sundown Friday till sundown Saturday students can completely power down all connections with technology and the world and focus on connecting with family and friends.

While the timing might not be great for every family, I do feel that it gives students (and parents) a break in time to focus on those close to them, as well as appreciate how technology gives them the chance to connect with others worldwide.

5. Treat time spent online as a reward

Daniel Kavish headshot
Daniel Kavish

Daniel Kavish, Lander University

Balancing time spent online and offline is important. Too much time spent online may lead to neglecting other important aspects of life. Encourage students to use their Internet activities as a reward for completing other meaningful and necessary tasks.

For instance, if your student plays video games online, then they may use that video game as a reward for finishing their homework, an important assignment, or some personal chore required of them at home.

6. Utilize the timer on your phone

Crystal Olivarria Do your students know how to balance time spent online & offline?
Crystal Olivarria

Crystal Olivarria, Career Conversationalist

Students can easily use the timer on their cell phones to remind them to take a break from the “screen”. Unplugging every 50 minutes or so is good for multiple reasons. It gives the eyes a break from the screen.

It gives students a reason to move around and not become stiff from sitting for too long. Getting up to get a snack or stretch also increases the likelihood of having a conversation with someone offline that may not have happened otherwise.

Parents can also make a rule that mealtimes and bedtime are times when teens must check in their phones with a parent. Teens are texting in the middle of the night and getting interrupted and/or not enough sleep. When family members eat dinner together, they should talk to one another and not text or surf on their phones.

7. Understand the value of being online

Ari Banayan headshot
Ari Banayan

Ari Banayan, Habit Nest

Developing a healthy balance between time spent online and offline is about understanding the value that being online provides. Students should spend as much time online as it is valuable.

If you're a student who needs to spend ample time reading and studying material that doesn't require internet usage, most time spent online is only for leisure and thus, should be treated as such. If the internet is important to your work, then you should spend an amount of time online that correlates directly to the work you need to get done.

One trick I find useful is avoiding using my laptop for online leisure. That way, I'm constantly reinforcing an association with my laptop that is wholly work related. If I want to mess around or take a break, I use my cell phone.

Conclusion

Setting and abiding to time limits on the screen can be challenging for students and adults alike. Using various tools to hold the user accountable can help develop good habits for screen time management andfind the balance between time spent online and offline.

Logged in and still not seeing content? This course may not be part of
your membership plan. Click here to join.

Become a member or login to learn more on this topic

Superintendents, Directors and Principals: Request a partnership on this page to unlock our resources for your whole community.

Become a member or log in to learn more on this topic

Superintendents, Directors and Principals: Request a partnership on this page to unlock our resources for your whole community.
Quotation marks

This is great info, thanks for giving me some ideas on how to start a dialogue with my teen!

StarStarStarStarStar

Sharon M.

Parent VIP Member

Quotation marks

Josh's presentation about social media was unbelievably fantastic. Our students learned so much about what kids should and shouldn't be doing. The fact that it is such a thoughtful process made it all worthwhile.

StarStarStarStarStar

Director of College Advising

Educator Webinar Attendee

Quotation marks

This webinar is a very helpful eye-opener on the apps that are popular with my students.

StarStarStarStarStar

Irene C.

Educator Webinar Attendee

Learn more

Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Suspendisse varius enim in eros elementum tristique. Duis cursus, mi quis viverra ornare, eros dolor interdum nulla, ut commodo diam libero vitae erat. Aenean faucibus nibh et justo cursus id rutrum lorem imperdiet. Nunc ut sem vitae risus tristique posuere.

Join Our Next Live Parent Q&A Events

Our recent events were a huge hit! 
The next events will be announced shortly
Visit our VIP Members page to watch a replay of our recent events
Join our weekly SmartSocial.com newsletter to stay updated

Watch a replay of our recent event:

Each of our monthly events feature real student voices, expert tips and practical advice that makes parents the most informed parent on the block

Become a Very Informed Parent (VIP) to get our social media suggestions in your email every Tuesday & Thursday.

Dotted arrow to right
Learn about our
"Very Informed Parent" 
VIP Program
Right arrow
Josh Ochs headshot Round

Schools & Districts: Partner with us to protect your community online

Our remote presentations (and website) teaches over a million students each year how to shine online. We teach students how their accounts can be used to create a portfolio of positive accomplishments that impress colleges and employers.

Partner with SmartSocial.com
Right arrow
SmartSocial podcast logo
Join Our Smart Social Podcast
each week on iTunes

With over 240 episodes, Josh Ochs interviews psychologists, therapists, counselors, teachers, and parents while showing you how to navigate social media to someday shine online.

Listen on: